February 15, 2010
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Brothers Chip Heath and Dan Heath did an excellent job with their new book Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard. In Switch, the Heaths give a basic framework for affecting change which anyone at any level in any organization can implement. This is great for youth pastors and volunteers alike.

The framework provided in Switch by the authors' on admission is incomplete ("We've deliberately left out lots of great thinking on change in the interests of creating a framework that's simple enough to be practical."), but their framework is doable. They introduce concepts (Rider, Elephant and Path) to help you understand the components of change, then dive in deeper to reveal action steps for each concept which will help you lead change. Although they provide many research studies about change, they are careful to not get mired down in the statistical data. They provide plenty of interesting real-world examples which back up the research.

Every youth pastor needs to read this book. (Chip and Dan were interviewed at the 2009 Willow Creek Leadership Summer by Craig Groeschel of LifeChurch.tv.) It would even be a good read with your volunteer leadership team. It will be helpful both as you lead change in your ministry and  as you challenge students to become more like Christ.

February 01, 2010
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Personal
Train Track Switch

(Photo: Richard Eriksson)

I am reading a pre-release copy of Chip & Dan Heath's new book Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard. I'm not finished yet, but it is challenging me in ways I never expected. (I will post a review before the books February 16 release.)

In my spiritual journey I have witnessed a lot of things that border on spiritual abuse. In response I took a more logical (and less impassioned) approach to ministry. I hadn't realized I was doing this until it was pointed out to me in a personality profile I took last spring. The profile said I "rarely display emotion when attempting to influence others" preferring "to let facts and figures stand for themselves." This might be great if Star Trek's logical Vulcans weren't fictional.

I am learning that God created us with emotions and making an emotional appeal in my teaching is not bad—only over using emotion is bad—and even necessary.

January 28, 2010
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Each year at our DiscipleNow* banquet, our youth pastor asks me to do an ice breaker game to help the small groups get to know each other. This year we are really breaking the ice.

Each small group will bust open an ice capsule containing an object (a flower for the girls small groups and a race car for the guys small groups). After freeing the object, each student will write down five things they have in common with the object and share those with their small group.

We will close the game with a challenge to students: "You just found five things you have in common with an object, a thing. If you can do that, you can find something in common with anyone at your school. The Apostle Paul said, 'Yes, I try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some.' If you will take the time to be a friend—a true friend—to someone, you will have an opportunity to tell them how important God is in your life and possibly introduce your new friend to Jesus."

This game was inspired by a scene in the movie "To Save a Life."

 

How to Make an Ice Capsule


Step 1 — Gather Supples

  • two large containers
  • one small container (about 1/3 the volume of a large container)
  • duct tape
  • objects to seal inside the capsule
  • water
  • cookie pan (not a cookie sheet)
  • room in a freezer

Step 1

 

Step 2 — Prepare the Containers

  • make a cross out of duct tape
  • place open end of small container on center of duct tape cross
  • place small container inside one of the large containers (the small container should be suspended in the large container without touching the sides or bottom)
  • secure duct tape to sides of large container

Step 2

 

Step 3 — Fill Containers

  • fill large/small container combo full being careful not to get any water in the small container
  • fill the second large container with enough water to fill the top half-inch of the container (you will turn this container upside down in the next step)
  • place upside down cookie pan on top of the second large container and flip over so the cookie pan is on bottom and the container is upside down (some water may leak out)

Step 3

 

Step 4 — Freeze Containers

  • place cookie pan with both containers in the freezer

Step 4

 

Step 5 — Place Interior Objects

  • carefully remove small container from large/small container combo (you may need to fill small container with some warm water to loosen it)
  • place object inside the cavity left by the small container

Step 5

 

Step 6 — Seal the Capsule

  • remove the half-inch slab of ice from the second large container
  • wet the top of the slab with water and smooth any rough edges
  • wet the rim of the ice in the other container (leave ice in this container for this step)
  • place slab on top of ice in the other container
  • place the sealed container back in the freezer

Step 6

 

Step 7 — Remove the Ice Capsule

  • remove container from the freezer
  • remove ice capsule from the container

Step 7

 

Step 8 — Have Fun

  • use a hammer to break the ice revealing the interior object

Step 8

 


*DiscipleNow is like a weekend retreat except it is held in town. Instead of staying in cabins students stay in host homes of church members.

January 25, 2010
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Red Carpet

(All photos in this post: Lloyd Clayton)

The first three weeks of 2010 have been a blur getting ready for a red-carpet opening of "To Save a Life." After screening the film, a local youth pastor had a crazy idea to host a Hollywood-style kick-off for the film in Burleson and our local network jumped on board. We had a sneak preview on Thursday night and a premiere on Friday night. It was a an incredible experience.

UPDATE (4:10p): Our local theatre manager was notified earlier today that Burleson was the top theater in the nation during opening weekend for "To Save a Life." He was so excited. It was the first time he had ever been first in the nation.

 

The Cast and Screenwriter


It is always a challenge working with people who travel in different circles than you. I have worked with athletes, musicians, and evangelists, but never actors, so I wasn't really sure what to expect. The crew from "To Save a Life" was beyond belief. Everyone was great to work with and very gracious to the fans.

Randy Wayne (Jake) is as energetic and fun as his character, but a little more spontaneous. I really appreciated the way he interacted with the crowds, especially on the red carpet.

Randy Wayne and Robert Bailey Jr

Robert Bailey, Jr. (Roger) is quiet and very humble. I was most familiar with his work as he co-starred in M. Night Shyamalan's "The Happening" and voiced Wybie in Henry Selick's "Coraline." Although Robert was quiet he was an extrovert with the fans.

Kim Hidalgo (Andrea) is the life of the party. She definitely had a certain "star quality" about her as she walked the red carpet, but she also took time to pose with fans.

Kim Hidalgo and Josh Weigel

Josh Weigel (Chris) was a last minute add to our program. (I didn't know you could book a flight that close to the departure time.) He arrived just before the red-carpet entrance on Friday. It was great to meet him and to hear about his latest project, "The Butterfly Circus."

Steven Crowder (Doug) is funny, intelligent, opinionated (visit his website for a taste), and kind. I will be looking for an opportunity to see his stand-up comedy act.

Steven Crowder and Trinity Scott

Trinity Scott (Kelsi) is warm and attentive. She got cheers for playing the pot-smoking praise team member and joked along with the crowd about her character.

Jim & Rachel Britts (Writer/Producer & Production Designer) are an unbelievable couple. I am amazed at their commitment to both their "day jobs" (as a youth worker and a high school English teacher) as well as their commitment to the creation of "films that matter."

Jim & Rachel Britts and the Cast

Brian Baugh (Director) was not at the event, but he took the time to share about the film with a group of leadership students on Skype and to make a video to thank everyone for their work in promoting the film. I was impressed that he took time to do that.

 

Movie Review


"To Save a Life" is the story of popular athlete Jake Taylor. Jake has everything going for him (popularity, the girlfriend everyone wants, star of the basketball team, a scholarship to a Division I university) until his world is rocked by the death of a childhood friend. Jake begins questioning everything which takes him on a journey to discover what he wants his life to be about.

Britts hit a home run on the dialogue. It never felt contrived or cheesy. Throughout the film I could see myself having or hearing these actual conversations.

The storyline was real, things youth workers see everyday. Britts did a great job covering multiple issues in one film and weaving them together into a believable plot. While the film may be shocking to some for its honest depiction on teen life, it is not predictable. There were times I could see different ways to handle the situations, but was unsure which way the story would go.

"To Save a Life" is great film which should be seen by every teenager, every parent of children and teenagers, and every youth worker—paid and volunteer.

 

The Heart of a Youth Worker


We had several hundred volunteers who helped with setup, tear down, greeting, merchandise sales, hosting and transporting the actors, hospitality, you name it. They were amazing! This event would not have been possible without the numerous man-hours these dedicated people provided.

A friend of mine approached me almost in tears half-way through the evening. She had noticed a student who was alone. Invisible. A lot like Jonny in the movie. This student caught her attention several times during the evening either standing or sitting alone or being ignored by a group of students he was trying to join.

In this large crowd of people celebrating a film about discovering "what you want your life to be about" and "hearing people who are dying to be heard," there was a student facing the same situation as Roger, Jonny, Blake and Sarah in the movie! I introduced myself to this student and discovered a little about him. Hopefully, I will be able to connect with him again soon.

Movie critic Matt Munger said, "This one [Christian film] needs to be seen by those inside the church walls who proclaim to live a certain way but instead are deceiving themselves." The events I observed in the theatre lobby confirm that.